Internal Family Systems
Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a transformative psychotherapy model developed by Dr. Richard C. Schwartz in the 1980s. It combines systems thinking with the understanding that the human mind is naturally composed of multiple subpersonalities or “parts.” These inner parts play distinct roles, each with its unique viewpoint and qualities. IFS aims to heal and integrate these parts, allowing individuals to access their core Self and develop self-leadership. The following explores the principles, techniques, and applications of IFS.
The Core Concepts of IFS
- Parts: IFS identifies various inner parts within an individual. These parts can be protective (such as the inner critic) or wounded (carrying emotions like anger, shame, or fear). They often conflict with one another and with the core Self.
- Core Self: The core Self represents the true essence of an individual. It remains unharmed and possesses innate wisdom and healing abilities. IFS focuses on connecting with and strengthening the core Self.
- Healing and Integration: IFS aims to heal wounded parts by acknowledging their pain, understanding their roles, and facilitating communication between parts. Integration occurs when parts harmonize and work together under the guidance of the core Self.
The IFS Process
Self-Connection: The therapist helps clients access their core Self—a compassionate, centered state. From this place, clients explore their inner parts without judgment.
Dialogue with Parts: Clients engage in dialogues with their parts, understanding their intentions, fears, and protective roles. This process fosters empathy and curiosity.
Unburdening Exiles: Exiles are wounded parts carrying traumatic memories. Clients work to unburden these exiles by witnessing their pain and allowing them to express their emotions.
Negotiating with Protectors: Protectors emerge to shield us from emotional pain. IFS helps clients negotiate with protectors, transforming their extreme roles into more balanced functions.
Integration: As parts heal and align, integration occurs. Clients experience greater harmony, self-compassion, and resilience.
Applications of IFS
Clinical Therapy: IFS is widely used as an evidence-based psychotherapy. Therapists apply it to treat conditions like depression, anxiety, trauma, and substance use.
Personal Growth: Beyond clinical settings, IFS offers tools for personal growth. Individuals learn to navigate relationships, enhance self-awareness, and experience qualities like confidence, compassion, and clarity in greater measure.
Professional Contexts: Professionals from diverse backgrounds—such as therapists, coaches, educators, and religious leaders—use IFS principles to inform their work. It enhances communication, conflict resolution, and leadership skills.
Why Choose Us?
Internal Family Systems Therapy in Calgary provides a holistic framework for healing and self-discovery. At Wellness Psychology, we have experience with counselling using IFS and recognizing inner parts, connecting with the core Self, fostering integration, and transforming lives. Whether in therapy, personal relationships, or professional contexts, IFS invites us to embrace our multiplicity and lead from a place of compassion and wisdom. If you would like to experience the deep healing available with IFS and foster a new relationship with yourself, please reach out to us today.